This blog saved me more than once.
Intro
I didn’t always know what I was doing when I started this blog and I just knew I needed a place to put my thoughts, somewhere outside my mind and away from the chaos I couldn’t control. I launched it quietly in 2015, deleted everything during some of my hardest seasons, and came back to it again in 2021.
I’ve always returned, because something about writing here feels like coming home to myself. And now, somehow, it’s been five years. This space has held my growth, my doubt, my healing, and my hope. It’s only right that I pause to honour what I’ve learned… and what I’m ready to release.
What I’ve Learned
I’ve learned that healing doesn’t always look like journaling in quiet corners or lighting candles. Sometimes it looks like filming a skincare routine when your heart is heavy, or putting together a DIY hair mask when life feels chaotic.
Redirecting my energy toward skincare, especially caring for my face became my first act of gentle rebellion. It reminded me I was still worthy of care, even when I felt broken.
YouTube became more than a platform…. it became a mirror. I used to overthink everything: “What will people think? Is this good enough?” But the more I showed up, even unsure, the more my confidence grew. Every video, every blog post slowly helped me reclaim my voice.
And that gave me the courage to return to this blog. To share not just beauty and wellness, but my thoughts, my softness, and my story.
I’ve learned that starting over is a form of strength. That people don’t need perfect content but they need something real. And even the messy parts of my story are still worth telling.
What I’m Letting Go
I’m letting go of the need to have it all figured out before I share anything. I used to wait until everything looked right. The blog theme, the “niche,” the timing. But honestly, none of that matters as much as just starting.
I’m also letting go of the overthinking. I’ve probably written and deleted more than I’ve published. But I’m learning to trust my voice more and not worry so much about being perfect.
Comparison is another thing I’m working on. I notice when other people grow faster or seem more consistent, but I remind myself: my pace is still valid. My path might be softer, but it’s still progress.
Most of all, I’m letting go of the belief that my story has to be big or dramatic to matter. Just showing up and sharing what I can and that’s enough.
What’s Next
I don’t have a five step plan or a perfect calendar. But I know I want to keep sharing more of the soft things, the honest things. Whether it’s skincare, DIYs, journaling, or just thoughts that come to me during a quiet moment.
I’m also exploring a few new things. A memoir maybe, or a journal I can share on Amazon KDP. I don’t know exactly how it’ll all unfold, but I’m learning to let that be okay. I’m not rushing it. I just want to stay consistent, creative, and gentle with myself while I figure it out.
I want this blog to feel like a safe space, not just for me, but for anyone who might be going through something and needs a little reminder that they’re not alone.
If you’ve been reading or following along in any way .
Thank you. It means more than you know.
Closing
So here I am five years in. Still figuring things out. Still choosing to show up anyway.
If nothing else, I hope this reminds someone that it’s okay to start, stop, and start again. Your story doesn’t have to be polished to be powerful.
And if you’re in a season where you’re rebuilding or rediscovering yourself I see you. You’re not alone.
💬 I would love to hear from you. What have you learned or released in your journey lately? Leave a comment below; your stories inspire me too.
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